Comments for Beth Collins Speaks

Comment on Grow or Die by Cheryl

Cheryl — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 03:00:22 +0000

Such a wonderful inquiry! Most of us would be drawn to the idea growth, because it has been so palpable to many of us in the journey of the evolution of this house. But, the question is more subtle than it’s surface would indicate. Does it need to be start or stop? Can it be incubation, like it has been for many of us over the past many months? Spirit works in many ways and the the possibilities may reflect the abundance, creativity and movement of spirit in our individual and collective lives. Life is organic; in constant flux. If we can align ourselves with the joy, creativity, and surrender to this free flowing Spirit in our midst, we may find that that many alternatives, including incubation are appropriate approaches.

Patience for ourselves and patience with the process are needed if the fruit is to ripen. All seems to be growing and building on an intended base and holding our intentions in an open and receptive mode may yield the most fruitful outcome.

Blessings to all who come through these doors.

Cheryl

Comment on Opinion or Wisdom? by Cheryl Roman

Cheryl Roman — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 02:30:10 +0000

Been wanting to come back to this one for awhile. After a few days in the desert, and some other moving personal experiences in the past several weeks, I am ready to add my affirmation to your powerful insights. Ego is of the head/mind. It is always trying to seek approval, be right, and maintain the outward illusion of control.
Wisdom comes from deep within. It knows it comes from love, but it does not always know how to express this love, or that this love will be understood or accepted by the one loved. It is more complex and sometimes unsettling. But, it is true. It comes from authenticity and integrity and is infused with spirit. It is often characterized by patience and compassion. Spirit filters and refines the unexplainable from our hearts and delivers it back out into the universe where it is used as it is intended.

Love these dialogues.

Cheryl

Comment on Opinion or Wisdom? by Louise Kahle

Louise Kahle — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 15:27:56 +0000

Very well said, Beth. Cookie sums it up beautifully.

Comment on Opinion or Wisdom? by Cookie Z

Cookie Z — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 01:54:49 +0000

Beautifully said Beth. I read this, and re-read it. I will probably come back and read it again. I feel so blessed to “be” in a place that allows me to understand precisely what it is that you are conveying here. It is nothing short of eloquent. Say more, write more, I enjoy it so much. Thank You!

Comment on What would it take for you to put yourself at the top of your list? by Louise Kahle

Louise Kahle — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:23:34 +0000

Could it be that the first 40 or 50 years is spent uncovering your true self? It sure seems that way for me. In the past decade I quit a job that I had been doing since I was 17, knowing that I wanted to spend the rest of my life doing something that was meaningful, fun and inspiring. I accidentily (although I know there are no accidents) stumbled into my passion …. inspiring women to feel good about the way they look, and discovered that what I am most passionate about is me. I feel that I am peeling layers from myself and finding an amazing woman, a woman who is strong and self-confident and on an incredible journey.
I will turn 60 this year and it gets better and better. THIS is what I want other women to discover, too!

Comment on What would it take for you to put yourself at the top of your list? by Global Toni's Perspective

Global Toni's Perspective — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 01:04:25 +0000

It’s nice to know that just by being you, you can inspire others. I am always inspired by you, Beth, as well. I thank the creator for leading me to the path back to the me he created me to be. Am I there yet? Definitely not, but on the right path for sure. I don’t even question it anymore….no matter what it looks like. I just put one step in front of the other & trust my guide. I wasn’t always this sure. I had setbacks along the way….times when I lost myself….even stopped looking in the mirror, but every time in that valley, the real me would bubble up & remind me that she was still in there when I was ready. She’s on the surface now and with each passing day, I get more & more comfortable letting her shine. I don’t care how others feel about her. Hell, they complained about the polyester, synthetic me that formed to try to fit into their ever changing acceptable image of me. I’m back & finding others from my planet. Loving life….loving me! I didn’t get sick, but I almost lost my mind. Thank God I’m wiser, stronger & not afraid. I am also moving my body daily in an effort to take care of this wonderful vessel I travel in. January was a good month & February is starting out amazingly strong. It’s going to be the best year yet & I will treasure every moment of it.

Comment on What would it take for you to put yourself at the top of your list? by Cheryl

Cheryl — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 21:18:37 +0000

Thank you, Beth, for your kind words and your affirmation of my influence on your well-being. Interestingly, my sincere quest for health began with a serious illness. I, like so many other women who spoke about the difficulty in putting themselves first, had to experience a major illness in order to find the way back to myself, and to put myself first. I was 45 years old, and caring for everyone around me – the classic overachiever. It was only when my doctor put me on a mandatory medical leave of absence, did I begin to come to grips with where I was in my life. The realization was that I could not keep on the path that I had been on, or I would be “permanently disabled”. Not being willing to accept that fate, and recognizing the fear that was keeping me from doing the right thing for myself, I began to ask the hard questions, to see things as they were and not how I wished them to be, and to make different choices (actually the hardest part). But once you make a different choice, especially one for yourself, it is so empowering. Your life opens up, your attitude improves and you feel that so much is possible. And best of all, you now know that choosing again is also a viable option. So, you are not so afraid the next time. So anyone out there who is frozen in fear, let me reassure you that the fear is far more damaging to your body, mind, and spirit than any change in circumstance. Listen to your heart and be strong for yourself.

Comment on She Let Me Watch Her Cook by Cheryl

Cheryl — Tue, 17 Nov 2009 01:26:46 +0000

Cooking is such a creative and organic experience for me. I was blessed to have a mother and two grandmothers who shared in the instruction of cooking. My grandmothers were very structured and organized. My mother preferred “routines”: a regular menu (like hamburgers on Saturday). All of them encouraged me to be active in the kitchen with them, and on my own. I have recipes from all of them, and now my children cook, as well. My older children are quite accomplished cooks, because I let them “play” in my kitchen. Encourage your children when they are young, and they will naturally gravitate to where you are and what you are doing. Fours, fives, and sixes are great helpers and thrill at the thought of making scrambled eggs (and adding anything that that they like that is in your fridge). If you missed the opportunity with your kids, there are always new generations coming that could benefit by your wisdom and encouragement. Creativity grows in many ways.

Comment on She Let Me Watch Her Cook by Global Toni

Global Toni — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:16:04 +0000

Miss your energy in the house. Bring a friend when you come. Awesome things are happening…..we’re expanding perspective. Getting back to “me” & living it!!!! Never going to give it up again & open to going where it takes me. Hope I’m there when you bring the food. I’m sure it’s going to be a delicious experience. Have a fabulous day!!!!

Comment on She Let Me Watch Her Cook by Monica Buckley

Monica Buckley — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 02:01:48 +0000

I would love to go to Elizabeth’s House and share some of my Mexican food with all of you even though I haven’t been there in a while due to family or work duties. I really think that this place is the best place to hang out where women listen and are understood by other women.
I have to say that Beth helped me in a lot of personal issues and made me a better person and I think that by giving us the oportunity to share our feelings and experiences in any case is always helpful to other women.

I really think that I need to make more time for mayself to learn, enljoy and grow as a woman, mother and wife. Thank you Beth for this wonderful place and for all the people you have with you to make this place so beautiful.

love, Monica

I will try my besto to schedule some time to be at elizabeth house with a good mexican recipe for you to enjoy.